We all get caught up in becoming something, wanting more than what we have, wanting perfection. I too am guilty of this. But, if you can change your mindset to a state of being, rather than a state of becoming, then your actions will be for your delight and enjoyment and not in an effort to become something, someone, or achieve a goal. In that there is fulfillment. Perfection is a human condition that goes back far beyond the don of the social media age; it has touched all generations in some way. This is something I work on daily, some days I fail, others I succeed, and over time the need for perfection and outward approval will dissipate.